In response to my last blog……
Yes, compliments are wonderful! Erika, you are probably right! I was just so mad because of all the things she has said and done to me! When I had it out with her months ago, one of the things I brought up to her was a comment her and another co-worker had made about me that had gotten back to me about being a Big Fat @^*#*($ Crybaby (because I had gone to the boss, about their harrassment)! I told her maybe I was fat, but at least I looked good! She is a lot bigger than I was even at my heaviest! So I was so pissed about her calling me fat! I think if she really wanted to know and her compliment was genuine she could have asked me herself instead of trying to butter up my hubby to get my weight loss program! Hey Erika, maybe you could help me come up with a weight program for her……..LMAO……
rn
I hope everyone is having a super day!
Well, some people just have to be taken with a grain of salt, and she sounds like one of them.
My standard answer to fat comments is ‘I may be fat, but you’re ugly and I can lose weight but you’ll still be ugly’. I know, not very mature, but ugly is more than on the outside!
Not meaning to copy Mary here or anything, but I always used that comment too, “so I’m fat…well you’re ugly and I can loose weight….and you’ll still be ugly.” Not very mature, but still, who cares!
Anyone that would refer to someone else’s weight problems in that sort of way is an ugly person. How we are inside reflects and changes our outward appearances!
Tell her it was donuts EVERY morning for breakfast!!! One of those kinds of things that most people think wouldn\’t work, but I swear it did!!!