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I had a good long talk with hubby over the weekend about all the drama at work! I told him how bad I feel that he is not defending me or sticking up for me! I told him I know it is a sticky situation with him being in a supervisor postition and having to deal with these people every day, but enough is enough! This is what these people are counting on! They know it is driving a wedge because they are doing this! I told him he needs to take a stand and have a talk with the boss and tell him that this cannot continue! I have done a lot of research over the weekend on workplace harrassment and bullying and also on sexual harrassment! I am taking a stand and I will not tolerate the emotional abuse that I have had to deal with! I will not be made to feel uncomfortable every time I go into base! I will not be ridiculed because I have different values than the majority! I will not be made to feel like I am in the wrong because of the filthy talk that makes me uncomfortable or the childish behavior and rudeness I encounter! I will fight back for my rights! Well hubby called me a little while ago. The employees are being told that this type of behavior will no longer be tolerated! I feel so much better knowing that he took a stand for me with the boss and with the co-workers. I know that things have been this way for too long and people are not going to like it, but they are now put on warning that this is no longer tolerated! I still have not made up my mind on attending the Christmas Party! I really have no desire to attend a party with people like this, but my husband is exected to attend because of his position and this makes another sticky situation! I am trying to be strong, but don’t know if I am strong enough to attend a social function with all of the crap I have dealt with lately!

I had some family issues with my kids and grandkids over the weekend on top of the other issues. Last night was not a good night for me! I just wanted to eat everything in sight! I did a little binging, but nothing as terrible as what I would have done in the past! I had a big bowl of sugar free ice cream with coolwhip on top! It satisfied my urge for something gooey and sweet, but it was about 3 or 4 (I didn’t measure it) of what a serving should be! I feel it could have been worse so I am not even going to worry about it! I at least took notice of what I was doing! I am back on track and that is what counts!

I hope everyone is having an awesome day!