I am so excited!

I finally have my new computer! I love it, at least so far! I love the new monitor too, I have a 19″ flat screen, I had a big bulky 15″ screen before. The tower is smaller and I have lots more room on my desk.

It has been hard, but I have decided to try, letting things go with the crap at work. I don’t have to go in there, unless there is an employee meeting. I feel like I was turning into a mean vengeful person. I am not  normally like that. I am just so hurt that this could happen. My friends no better than to believe what she is doing and they are the ones that matter, not the ones follwing her little whims. It still bothers me that the boss is allowing it. I believe that what goes around comes around and that she will eventually get her just due. It may not be today or tomorrow, but people who do the things she has done eventually get caught up in there one messes! I am doing this because of my husband. He has to work with her and her little cliche every day. It was almost like I lowering myself to her standards when I was so obessessed with getting back at her. I have friends there that know me and know what has truly happened. The Company Christmas Party is just the beginging of what is going to come back to bite her in the butt! The only employees now going are her little cliche a few others and the boss!  The rest of the employees decided not to go!

I have to get totally back on track and hopefully still get to the 100 lb. loss by Christmas!

Have a good one!

5 Comments so far

  1. robin @ December 2nd, 2007

    Great attitude. I think its wonderful that you wont let this negative person have the power to make you react to her anymore. You know this is what they live for anyways. I also agree and seen it happen many times that what comes around goes around.They will leave you alone, I think once they see it doesnt bother you anymore.

  2. BabeBGirl @ December 2nd, 2007

    Gosh girl I really enjoyed reading your blog this morning. What is happening at your work sounds like mine even thou I was let go on Friday. I no its because of all the parents and kids loving me instead of the owner and she couldnt stand that. I am a loving and caring lady and will continue to be one. I have already had parents call me and are very upset about what she did to me, and its because I didnt call the secretary but I did call the office since my head was hurting so bad from the accident at work but like you said what goes around comes around and God doesnt like ugly! Thanks for listening and you hang in thar. You are a great lady and never doubt it for a second. Huggs Babe

  3. JustJane47 @ December 2nd, 2007

    I’m so glad things have calmed down in your life Bette Jo. Your so right, what goes around comes around. You know in your heart you did nothing wrong, and your “real” friends know the same.
    Its ok to get angry and frustrated, you had every right too, I would have felt that way!!
    Ok…new day….new plan…back on track…a big hug to help you get started!!! Take Care!!

  4. Lori @ December 2nd, 2007

    Congrats on your new computer. Sounds really nice.

    You have the right attitude to just care about what your real friends. They do know you and thats what matters.

    I also believe very strongly that what goes around comes around.

    Wow to lose 100 pounds by Christmas what a wonderful present, the present of a lifetime.

    Enjoy the rest of your weekend
    Lori

  5. brn2bthn @ December 3rd, 2007

    I always love a new computer. I hope to get one for xmas as mine died a few months back. Yes, she will get hers eventually. My ex can vouch for that. I don’t know how many times he’s apologized for the way he treated me over the years when his world began to crumbel around him and he realized he wasn’t the all mighty ruler. It may take a few years but it will happen. Stay focused the 100 lbs and let nothing or no one stop you.

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