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I am really having a very hard time staying on track after the holidays. I have taken off 4 of the pounds I put on over the holidays. This past week, I reamained the same. At least I did not gain.

Things at work going okay! I had to go in last Friday for a mandatory meeting. The witch kept smiling at me, and it crossed my mind to just reach over there and smack that smile off her face, but don’ t worry I didn’t do it! I had a talk with the other committee member (the one that has the position I resigned from and then reran for). Well any ways she was unaware of my issues. Of course she would be! We went up in the office to have a private talk. This office is the one the committee has always been able to use for their meetings. Well about 10 minutes into the talk we are told we have to get out of the office as there are private papers in there…….well duh……..it is an office and there are always private papers there……..but I think they just didn’t want us to be able to talk. I invited her to come to my house on Sunday to continue our talk. She came over with her b/f who is also a driver for the company! What I figured would happen did happen to her. She got stabbed in the back also by the witch! She went to the boss and he told her he didn’t think it was quite like that, that it was just her imagination!! Gee I think I have heard that one before! Well she told me she would see what she could do, but doubted it would be anything, because nobody was going to listen. Well hubby tells me she is going to resign too, because she is tired of it all.  Maybe this will make someone realize what the heck is going on, but I doubt it too!!

I have a question for my buddies, that is not diet related. For those of you with grown kids, how do you learn to back off things that you see hurting your kids. I have not learned how to do this yet! My middle son (almost 24)has decided to go back with a girl I totally despise she has such bad morals and values that it is literally making me sick to think of him being with her. My youngest son has a g/f who I am slowly finding out is about the same way. She is continuously doing things to hurt him (liking breaking up with him for another guy) and they are right back together the next day!  He is so hurt every time this happens and it is breaking my heart! As a mother you hurt when your kids hurt, but yet you know at some point you need to butt out! Help, I feel so helpless at this point!

I hope everyone is having a great week!