Hanging in there this week……
It has been a very stressfull week. I have been feeling very down for most of it! I love my job, as a bus monitor for special needs children. I have 4 of them. They are like extra grandkids to me! The company I work for has made me feel like my job is not important! It sucks! Hubby is under a lot of stress with his job. He still has one but the job he does now is being eliminated and he doesn’t have a job title or even know exactly what his position will be! My hubby also has a weekend job so evening together are very important to me. This week has sucked he has been here, but falls asleep in the recliner every night by 8. Last night I had planned on a great dinner and lingerie! Didn’t happen, two of the grandkids had Open House at school! My son bought pizza and wings for dinner! I should have brought my own dinner! Nope, I ate 2 pieces of pizza and 4 wings! I guess it could have been worse! So that shot last night! Today hubby wants me to come in for lunch during my break between runs. Not sure I want to go in that place! The crap that goes on in there brings me down! I try not to judge people, but it is so hard in this situation! I value my marriage and it bothers me when other people don’t value theirs. My work place is Peyton Place! In the past 6 months 5 people have left their spouses for another at work! I think it is disgusting! Hubby tells me it is none of my business, and I agree, but I can’t help how I feel about it! My feelings are if you are unhappy with your marriage then you leave! After you leave you can then choose to be with someone else! You don’t go looking for a replacement while you are still married! I have been with my husband for 30 years next month! I know he would never cheat on me. yet I still get this idea in my head that it could happen! One of these people had been married almost as long as my hubby and me! I just need to get this off my chest!
I hope you are all having a super week!
Big HUGS!
Yep, I fret about mine cheating and he is a good man, but he gives his time freely to everyone else it seems and one of my love languages is quality time. It hurts my feelings. Make sure you are full before you go to lunch. Eat something quick and diet appropriate at work and then nibble and box most of your lunch out. It can be his treat for dinner or a lunch the next day.
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Aww girl,
You know what..you cant force the company you work for to acknowledge how important your job is….but, I can tell by the way you write about these kids…it is near and dear to your heart..and I bet those kids love you too..that’s what’s important. I guess the fact that your there and the company is paying you could be considered your acknowlegement? No matter what..your job is important to those that really matter..you and those kids.
Thats rought that hubby is working two jobs..your working one…what it takes to make ends meet sometimes is crazy.
I know your upset with him falling asleep in the chair…how exhausting all this must be for you and him!!
The only advice I can give you about hubbys work place..is to develope tunnel vision. As for all those marriage problems people are having and the running around…well, girl… you never know what goes on behind closed doors…meaning never know whats really happening in private lives…some of these people may have been mistreated in a big way…very unhappy…whatever. I am in no way saying what people are doing is right…but sometimes things are not what they seem.
I have always told hubby..if I Want a boyfriend…I will get rid of you first! lol Its never gonna happen…been with him 20 years and plan on staying with him forever.
Girl, you have been with your man for 30 years…you know your man…besides, if your worried..tell him what I told mine…I wont share and I’ll kill you first lmao ..(j/k.)
Hang in there girl…things will work out. Just focus on taking care of yourself and your family…theres a lot of blessings right there. Much love, Debbie
I think it is awful when people who are married do that to their spouse…it makes me sick. Your husband obviously wants to spend time with you go in and have lunch with him and just enjoy your time together.
Your job is such a rewarding one!! I don’t care what anyone else says!! I worked as an aide w/special needs kids for 14 years and I KNOW bus drivers ARE important. As far as the workplace goes… how sad that people find it so easy to cheat. Just be polite and know that you don’t have to be involved in their sad lives and you get to be out on the road!! I hope you get the chance to do your lingerie night again. ( I know Hubby will love it!! ) Have an awesome and amazing day!!!
If your hubby was even thinking one little bit about cheating on you there is no way in Hell he would want you to go into work and have lunch with him. You get your self in there and enjoy whatever time you two can manage to spend together. Just be happy he wants you there.
