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Thank you everyone for your responses on my last blog!

It is so draining being ASSertive! I called the Dental Insurance again, and she checked everything while I was on hold for 10 minutes told me No, you don’t have coverage, call your employer! I called hubby tells me he got a fax from headquarters saying they took care of it! I say no it isn’t I just got off the phone with the Dental Insurance and she checked. He gives me the number of the person at headquarters and at first I don’t want to call them, but I think about it for a few minutes and decide to call. He tells me it is taken care of that he took care of it earlier in the day, it is probably just not updated to give it until Monday! And get this it is back dated to the first, Yea, because they have been deducting it all along! I was thinking, Bull shit, I didn’t have it and I want to be refunded, I doubt I will, but I haven’t had it I have paid for it and today is now the 16th! Why should I have to pay for insurance I don’t have!

I do think he feels threatened because I speak up! He tells me I embarress him when I speak up! He has never called me controlling before I honestly think that wasn’t his word, I think he got it from one of his buddy’s who knows what controlling is, he does it to his g/f. She is always, like Yes, anything you say to him. Alot like I use to be and refuse to be any more!

I love my husband with all of my heart, but I will not sit back and keep everything to myself and go back to the old way! When I hurt I am speaking up and not eating a box of cookies or a giant candy bar! If someone says something to me that is not nice I am telling them I don’t  like what you said to me! If someone makes a sexual or racial slur at work, I will continue to speak up! I don’t care anymore when I walk in there and hear you got watch what you say NOW, Bette Jo is here! Yes, they actually say that, because I have turned people in for talking filthy talk and I have turned people in for racial slurs and I will continue to do it!

Would you believe this did not cause me to have a set back today! I did not binge, I wanted too, but I didn’t do it! I opened the fridge about 5 different times and I was like Whooaaaa, don’t you dare! You don’t want to do that! Hubby will be home  shortly and I hope I can remain calm! We do need to have a talk about this, but I don’t think I can do it tonight and stay calm!

Hope you all had a great day!

Big HUGS!