Taking my life back……
I keep talking about how I have gained the same pounds all winter long. Well when I take a look at the past year, it has not been a very big loss! So actually it has been all year long! I am going to take my life back and get it done this year! No more games no more excuses! I am going to work my ass off and get it done.
I have been great at telling all of my buddies to make themselves #1 and I have been putting myself last! NO MORE!
My middle son and his g/f have been staying with us for a few weeks now. He has been working the whole time, she got a job as a sub monitor where we work. When they moved in hubby and I told them they would need to help with things around the house………Yea Right! I do 99 % of the work around here. Today I am not only cleaning and organizing my house, I am making new rules and there is going to be some big changes going on!
Things have been bad for us financially since I was out of work for my surgery and now it looks like maybe we are finally getting caught up. I have used this as an excuse for not eating right too! This week, I bought me some Healthy Choices and Lean Cuisine for when they are all having their unhealthy dinners.
Last night my youngest son and his g/f came over to spend the night. Well the two sons g/f don’t care for each other I guess. Well that is not my problem and they are going to be civil or I am going to speak my piece. I have gone this route with my oldest son and his wife telling me they don’t like the g/f of the other brothers. I told them tough crap! You don’t get to pick their g/f. If my mother in law had gotten to pick my hubby’s wife it wouldn’t have been me either! Either they can all get along or just keep their mouths shut, I just don’t want to hear it any more!
I am going to start making me #1 and take care of me! I am going to proud of me and do what I have to do in order to get there! I am not going to let anybody or anything stand in my way any more! No more excuses, no more bullshit!
I am so glad for my buddies that have been here for me with all of their support, motivation and inspiration and on occasional butt kicking!
I hope you all have an amazing weekend!
Biggest HUGS Ever!
Yes ma’am! Get those people in line and do things for yourself for a change! I’ve even found age-appropriate chores for my kids. They put up all their clothes, except the ones that have to be hung in the closet. They wipe down the table and chairs after dinner. All toys have to be picked up. Etc. If I can get a 5 and 7 yr old to do things, you can get adults to do things too!
This IS YOUR YEAR. This is my year. I agree! Your progress has been amazing. You have what it takes to do what you need to do.
I’m proud of you!
*hugs!*
Bette Jo, I am so proud to hear you say that ! You are very impotant ! You are absolutely correct in telling them to grow up and get along ! We all have people we don’t like in life but we still have to seal with them ! You are a strong lady ! I know you can get ‘er done ! Hugs, Kimmi
OOps! LOL , I said have to seal with but, I mean deal with! Oh, gosh maybe I am losing it ! Oh well good thing in laughing at myself ! Hugs, Kimmi
Yup just focus on YOU. You deserve it.
You tell ‘em lady!!! Love you!!!
hell yeah girl!! Your taking charge again! I’m rooting for ya!!!! Whooo hooo!!
Girl, you just made my day. What am I saying you made my week
I am so proud of you for finally taking charge and putting your foot down. You are so right with everything … more power to you girl! You go and tell them and you go and take your life back! 
**HIGH FIVE** and ((BIG HUGS))