Where do I begin…….
I am having a hard time making time for me once again! I know it is important for me time in order to reach my goals. Sometimes there are just to many things going on in my life to do that.
My husband’s mother passed away in January but where we live they had to wait until the ground thawed for the burial. Her burial was on Saturday. My husband and kids have been very emotional with this. I have been trying to be there for them. I did not have a good relationship with my mother in law, but it was my husbands mother and my son’s grandmother, so I am doing what I need to do for them.
My 9 year old grandson Cody has a lot of issues that are pulling the family apart. When he was 5 he was very sick. He developed Transverse Myelitis. Not only did it affect him physically it has affected him emotionally. He has a hard time not doing the things he wants to do. He has a lot of behavioural issues that affect the whole family. It is really taking a toll at home with my oldest son and his wife and the other children. I am trying to be there for them too. I am on Spring Break starting on Friday and I will be having Cody for most of my break. He is usually really good for me when he by himself away from the other children. I think it will do him some good to have some just Cody time!
http://www.myelitis.org/tm.htm
I have also just found out over the weekend that my youngest son’s g/f is pregnant. He is 20 she is 19 they are both the laziest kids you want to see. Neither of them work and have no motivation. We will see what happens now!
I am trying to take care of me, but right now, I am more going with the flow than anything else, just trying to keep sane!
I hope you are all having a great week!
Biggest HUGS Ever!
You do have a full plate, pardon the pun. I hope things start leveling out for ya. You sure do need to find some me time and soon!
You are such a strong amazing woman!!! much stronger then myself. I can only imagine how difficult it is for little Cody and all who love him.
You are an angel for taking him over spring break. I hope your family realizes what a blessing you are:)
You know with our kids, its always something
I hope your son and girlfriend enjoy the baby. Maybe this will be such a learning experience, they will realize they have to work in order to keep a family!!! Lets think positive plus you’ll be yet ANOTHER NANA!!!!
You take care, please find time for you, take care of you Bette Jo.
Love you
Jane
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You sure have alot going on girl. Little Cody is going to love the time with you.
But don’t forget yourself in all of this hun 
Hope your son and g/f wake up and realize they need to be responsible parents and need to get of there butts.
Sending ((BIG HUGS)) your way and please please please take some Bette Jo time here and there
Bette Jo, sorry I have not been on but here now ! You may have to get really tough on these kids because they are gonna be parents soon and they need to know how to take care of themselves and a baby ! I will pray for you and the strength to get through it ! Hugs, Kimmi