Sick and tired of being sick and tired……..

I am just so tired and drained, both physically and emotionally! I know what I need to do to not feel this way! Why can’t I do it? I know how much better I feel both physically and emotionally when I take care of me!

Yesterday I think my hubby had PMS he was so crabby all day! I took every little thing he said personally and I felt so down! I know he is under a lot of stress from work and I usually try to understand this, but yesterday he was being nit picky about everything I said or did! He doesn’t understand the stress I am under with things in my life! He doesn’t let the bills get to him, he doesn’t get it because I am the one that robs Peter to pay Paul! I want to take our vacation to Virginia next month, but can’t figure out how we are going to do it and keep up on our bills too! He doesn’t help with things around the house, but complains when it isn’t up to his standards! When I was gone for three days last week to go to my uncles funeral he didn’t do a thing here! He couldn’t even take the garbage to the curb (he forgot, I wasn’t here to remind him)!

I am going to take a little time off BS today, and try to get things more organized! Not for him, but for me! I think if I can get my environment more organized I can get myself more organized and back on track! I will be back on tonight!!

I am so thankful to all of my buddies (Friends) who offer me support, motivation, inspiration and encouragement!

I hope everyone has an awesome day!!

Biggest HUGS!

5 Comments so far

  1. melonclarinet @ July 20th, 2009

    The organization sounds like a good plan. When I’m more organized, it takes a ton of stress off of me. Guess I should get on that too.

  2. kyliejo @ July 20th, 2009

    That stinks. My husband was complaining about how I was folding laundry yesterday and I ripped his head off. hahaha I went off for like 15 min about how if he doesn’t like how I do it then he can do it and etc etc etc
    Maybe you should just tell your husband how you feel. Sometimes men don’t understand they are being jerks….

  3. astrongnewme @ July 20th, 2009

    I HEAR YOU! I have been sick for a whole week, and I stress about everything. It’s worn me down too. I agree with taking time for yourself, whenever you need it.

  4. grapeape @ July 20th, 2009

    I’m with Holly. Maybe he truly doesn’t get it and it needs to be explained. I have to explain everything to my Rob, but I love him! I think the organizing is a great plan…good luck!

  5. somemansdream @ July 20th, 2009

    Girl,
    I know you, your a fighter-what’s holding you back? You dont get as far as you have without being a fighter.
    Ironically, stress is one of the things that throws off the wagon. Yet, what is the best way to combat stress-taking care of yourself, eating good and working out.
    I understand about the money-god, thats not even something I wanna think about right now. I was just wondering about fun. Are you doing something fun for yourself? If your like me, that’s the first thing that goes…fun, what’s that? So, i’ve promised myself–every day, that i’m gonna get some dancing in. I love it, it helps boost my mood and is just a real joy for me (and its free!). Do you have anything like that for you?
    Dont take this laying down girl–a tough cookie like you isnt going to roll over and play dead right??
    Love ya girl…

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