A moment on the lips forever on the hips….

This is what I will repeat to myself every time I want to eat something I should not!

Here I am almost three years later still plugging along at BS! I have learned so much along the way, but I am tired of being fat! I am going to stop crying about it and do something about it! I am going to get serious again!! Yeah I have said it all before, but for some reason I know I am going to do it this time!

No matter how much I worry about my kids and what they do, they are going to do what they want to do and hopefully learn from their mistakes! They are adults and I have to stop trying to fix everything for them!

I will go see my mother more and focus on the fact she loves me and I love her! The communication is hard, but just being there is what is important!

I will keep reminding myself, two more weeks and I have three off and then…….we are going to Virginia for a week! Yipee!

I hope everyone had a super weekend and you all have a wonderful week!!

BIG HUGS!

9 Comments so far

  1. not2late4tina @ August 3rd, 2009

    They sound like good goals. Good luck.

  2. jerseymom @ August 3rd, 2009

    Fantastic Goals! You CAN do it!!

    Another quote I like… nothing tastes as good as skinny feels :)

  3. meltingaway @ August 3rd, 2009

    I am so glad you are still here!
    It must be hard not to fix everything for your children. In the long run they will have to figure life out for themselves. It is better to do it now rather than later. This coming from the 30 year old that cut the apron strings less than 6 months ago. My father is still surprised I am doing so well with out his help. It is so nice to go visit him because I want to see him and say hi, not because I need something.

  4. Shakeyolonbon44 @ August 3rd, 2009

    you can do it bette jo!!! just take one step at a time!

  5. khmerbeauty @ August 3rd, 2009

    I LOVE IT BETTE JO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let’s get serious! :) We can do it hon.

  6. somemansdream @ August 3rd, 2009

    I know you can do this girl!!
    As for the kids, well, we’ve raised them and its time for them to grow up. Even if that means watching them make mistakes. Its hard, I know.

  7. kamaperry @ August 4th, 2009

    Ate my comment!! Bette Jo, you should print this and hang it where you can read it every day. You are a strong woman and I know you can do it. I beleive in you.

  8. nowisthetime @ August 4th, 2009

    YOU ARE TOTALLY AWESOME!!!! BETTE JO you must have been in my mind. I am TIRED of being fat. At some point you have to say enough is enough! Thanks woman!

  9. grapeape @ August 5th, 2009

    I’m tired too. Great blog!

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